How did the move itself go – and what does this step mean for your family?
An international move with five people and a golden retriever is never entirely straightforward. Visas, schools, housing, insurance, cars, bank accounts and the move itself: the list of things to organise seems to get longer rather than shorter. ERGO gave us a great deal of support with the big issues, including visas, relocation and shipping our belongings. Professional support and dedicated contacts make an enormous difference. Just as important, though, is having a family that is excited about the adventure too. Donata brings a wonderful mix of openness, curiosity and calm to it all. We all had already spent a year living in Chicago and absolutely loved it. Back then, our three boys were between one and six years old, so it was quite an undertaking, especially as we moved there in January. At least California has made the weather side of this move a little easier!
Of course, not everything goes to plan. Our furniture is still somewhere between Germany and California. With most of it yet to arrive, we sometimes eat on the floor, the boys do some of their homework there too and we have had to get creative with the beds. But those are minor details in the bigger picture. Donata and the boys have embraced this new chapter with such openness and good humour. The children are happy at their new school, we have already settled in really well, and even Chili made it through the long flight just fine. We all feel very much at home. Once the container turns up, we can officially declare the move complete.
At the same time, we miss family and friends in Germany – with a nine-hour time difference, even a spontaneous phone call isn’t easy. But we’re experiencing an incredible amount of new things together and growing as a family through this step.
You’ve lived abroad several times. What role have these moves played in your career?
Living abroad has always shaped me. I spent eight years in Italy with my family as a child. Later, I attended an American high school for a year and spent more than a year working at a US law firm in Chicago. Starting afresh, adapting to a new environment and discovering new things became part of my life early on.
Looking back, my best career decisions have often taken me outside my comfort zone: from a major international corporate law firm in Berlin, via a stint at a US law firm in Chicago, to a Berlin start-up; then on to a major insurance group in Düsseldorf and now ERGO NEXT in California. These environments could hardly be more different, and that is exactly what has made them so valuable. Without joining ERGO, I probably would never have had the opportunity to work for ERGO and NEXT in California today. Experiencing different worlds teaches you not only to see things differently, but also to bring them together.
How would you describe yourself – and what do you think your colleagues would say about you?
I’d say I’m curious, open and fairly uncomplicated. I like approaching people, enjoy getting to grips with new topics and environments and I like driving things forward without taking myself too seriously. Good working relationships, trust and a sense of humour matter a lot to me.
I hope colleagues would say that even with complex issues I try to bring different perspectives together, get to the heart of a problem fairly quickly and look for pragmatic solutions everyone can work with.
What really tests my patience? When things are made more complicated than they need to be, or decisions take a very long time. I like to see things move.
ERGO wants to encourage more colleagues to take up international assignments. What does it take – and what’s your personal advice?
From my point of view, three things are crucial. First, international assignments should be an obvious and visible part of a career at ERGO. Many colleagues probably don’t know how many exciting roles there are across ERGO’s international world.
Second, you have to think about the whole family: schools, housing, visas, your partner’s professional situation – these factors are just as important as the role itself when it comes to deciding.
Third, the process needs to be as straightforward as possible. An international move inevitably involves a lot of bureaucracy; the more that is absorbed through clear processes and dedicated contact persons, the easier the decision becomes.
My personal advice: if you get the opportunity – take it. Spending a longer period abroad broadens both your professional and personal horizons and changes how you see all the things you normally take for granted at home. And if you can bring your family along, it becomes a shared experience that goes far beyond the job.
Interview: Stefanie Neumann